Good job. Let's just refine them a little bit so we can measure progress.

I want her to confide in me again.
This one may be ambitious for right now. What would have to happen before she confided in you.

I want her to show some sort of emotion that isn't driven by money throughout all this
This one is a little vague. What specifically would you like her to say or do....or, in other words, when this goal is achieved, how will you know it?

I want her call me and ask me if I want to go to dinner.

Perfect. Is there anything, smaller goals that would have to happen before she did this? Or...when things are headed in this direction, WHAT WILL BE THE FIRST SIGN...what will you both be saying and doing?



I want to go beyond a simple kiss good night when I drop her off ...
I want her to initiate sex (with me this time).[/

How many dates are you likely to have before this would happen?
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The ebook you mentioned is definitely not recommended, we remove references to it from this site. Most of his strategies are detrimental to relationships, especially marriages.

Did you invite her to dinner?


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001