It's a very nice piece. Genuine silver....with simulated birthstones of the kids. The real deal would have cost $500 more... And nobody would be able to tell the difference.
Originally Posted By: tryingtoholdon
She could have been nastier.
For my birthday (in July) I got a t-shirt and a DVD. Thanks for the effort...
Originally Posted By: tryingtoholdon
Mark if she wanted to file she could have already done it. Try not to assume the worst. Although I know you have to mentally prepare yourself.
I agree that if she really wanted to file, she would have done so already. The irony here is that she is scared of the divorce. And I am not.
Originally Posted By: tryingtoholdon
Mark maybe it would be a good thing for her to see the damaged side of you. Meaning what this has done to you. Or what you are honestly feeling. Maybe it wouldn't help. But maybe just maybe it could. : (
I disagree on this one. She needs to see me as strong and confident. Showing weakness will give her another excuse. I need to be myself. Being phony (weak, needy, depressed, moody) will drive her away. And being "me" has nothing to do with her. It's who I am. Whether she likes it or not.
But thank you, thank you, thank you for the input. I treasure it. I really do.
