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[Michael Mc C]

I know she loves me... why is she doing this to us?

I bet she doesn't even know why. It could be so many things. If she loves you (and I too believe my wife loves me "somewhere in there") she may not recognize it. She may not be able to bring herself around to admitting any wrong-doing or digging up the past to resolve the marriage issues. She may still be confused and needs to "coast" for a while. There are probably many other maybe's as well.

In my case I believe my wife has convinced herself, with the help of others, that there is nothing left here for her. Love or not there will always be someone out there to validate her need to get out of our marriage.