Today was a confusing day is I suspected it would be. H was supposed to be here around 10 but didn't here until after 11. I planned to go shopping and run errands so he could spend time w/ the Ds. I was getting ready to leave and he asked where I was going. I could tell from his reaction that he was surprised and I explained that I thought he would want to be alone w/ the Ds. H asked about taking them to lunch but I had already put something in the oven. I said I could take it out. H said it was ok we could do dinner instead. I asked if that included me and he said he thought the Ds would enjoy that.
H called an hour later to say D10 was going somewhere w/ a friend. I went home after a few hours. While I was gone H played board games w/ the Ds. Not something he has done a lot in the past.
After I got home H took a 2 hour nap. Then we took D15 to look at phones and tvs. Pick up other D and went to dinner. Dinner was a good time and we all got along. After we got home the four of us played a game. D10 got upset about not winning but we played again and she won. It was a lot of fun being a family again and spending the time together.
So I have no idea what all of this means. Don't know if H is starting to want to be a family again or not. I mentioned something about H taking Ds to a movie as I have an app. w/ C in the morning. They decided on a movie and time. H told me he sees his C in the afternoon. That is the first app. he has told me about in months. Seems so positive but I'm still trying to keep expectations low.
