Maybe you are paying to much NoCode. If she wants this seperation legal maybe you should try giving her the life she wants. Let her be Miss Independent financially with her 25% a month or whatever it is in your state.
I was just wondering if you ever got your say in about what she has dome to harm the marriage. Sounds like you have. For my husband my anger is what made him snap for the better go figure. I could be nice and do things and GAL. Maybe the combination of everything helped. But when I went postal on him and got down right angry and pointed out all of HIS short comings and what people would think. Well, it's like he seen the light. At least I think.
