How are you guys set up financially right now? Are you still supporting her life? Or are you paying child support? I agree with her that you two need toi split your finances. Give her that, But tell her point blank how you feel about the seperation. Tell her to go pay for a lawyer that your NIT signing anything you are uncomfortable with>
I am curious because she seems to be a real manipulater. Have you ever gotten angry with her. Like a hey listen you cheated on me!! You aren't innocent! You did your part in tearing this family apart. You have fear of me taking these kid's. Well, honey here is my fear I have two beautiful sons and you have a man in the wings waiting to be a father to them ar at least involved in their lives. How do I know you won'ttake off with your OM? YOU are the one who has changed here!