Right. Do it, write it and present it. This is BS. She can't stand the sight of you. Too bad. Divorce does not end the relationship between two people. It changes it. You will still be in her life. She will still have to work things out with you. She will have to communicate with you several times a week. Divorce does not take the spouse out of the other spouse's life. She needs to accept reality, because the court will set up the way you and she deal with the children and the finances. She is not going to push you out of their lives.
