Wow Jar it amazes me that this OM has no problem being around you at all. You would think if he knew you were coming over or anything he would run for the hills. Do you think he just thinks in his mind that this isn't cheating because you guys are seperated? Or is this just one big dude who thinks he is billy bad azz? I am just amazed that he would come out knowing he was in the shower with your wife. Kind of like a blatant rub it in your face thing.

That was so nice you got X-mas morning with the girl's. You are such a great dad!!