Thinking of you LWB. As you mentioned there's a time when you realize that as hard as you've been trying, you find that you're still mired in the pain of the situation. I'm glad to see that you're gaining strength.
I've thought in the past that I was detached enough but all it takes is one simple reminder and I can feel the emotions trying to get to me. I've gotten better but have a way to go still.
Stand firm with your interactions with your husband. Hopefully he'll start to see what a needless mess he's making.
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Me: 39/W: 37 D13-D11-S8 M/T 14/20
EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07