H sounds so confused - they want it all and cannot figure out how to not hurt you or OW...
I too had to push my H out - set him 'free' to let him find out what life would be like w/o me and w/OW - it was not so rosey...it took him 5 mos to figure out he belonged at home with his wife and kids. Can you try for separation first?
You need to do what is right for YOU....DB'ing is just a tool to help us through all this BS.. it is not an exact science...
I am praying for you!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
