Hi "NOT A WORD about yesterday!!! Can you freaking believe it??" Unfortunately, I can believe it! Just when you think you have gotten through to them, they recoil. This is actually expected here in MLC land. your H may be so nice to you for days and maybe have some R talks and then BAM...back to being withdrawn. You can read my past posts to get my story but I have been where you are..wanting to call OW, some heart to heart talks with H, postive moments when U thought maybe he was coming around etc...
the long and short of it is this takes time. Take care of you and your daughters. I placed the focus on my and my 2 daughters, did not contact H unless I had to and basically gave him NO time of day.
H filed for D and we went to court for a conversation with the L's...I was business like and had finally realized I could do it on my own..
After all this H came to me and wanted to work it out. I decided I would try and H has been home for 6 months, our M is better, we go to MC and we make each other a priority. One of the things H said when he initially left was that he did not feel important to me.
Try not to guess what he is doing! That drove me crazy for a long time...finally I gave up and began feeling better...that attracted H and he said he always thought about what I was doing!
Hang in there, vent here when you need to! I feel like I am a success story in the works...I DB'd and made my M better for it!
