You had alot of courage to say what you said to your H. I would like to set my H free, but I'm afraid of the answer he'd give me right now. I hope everything turns out the way you want it to. I always back peddle when I say what I want to say because of his reactions....My H may cry and say the same things but before the talking is over...he's angry and turning everything around on me....

Good luck to you....keep us posted on how things progress! I sincerely hope this works for you!

BA

Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally