Hope you had a good Christmas.

From someone is is a few cars ahead of you on this rollercoaster- take it slow. Don't rush. Make sure this is what you want and that you have some foundation of trust back before she moves back in. I wish I had waited. There are so many things I would have done differently- and it's only been 2 months. I even had an anniversary present for H that I couldn't give him on the 22nd because my trust level isn't there yet.

I wanted it so much for 3 years and now it's a daily struggle not to tell H I don't think we can live together.


When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007

7/1/05 Bomb
7/20/05 H moves out
2.5 years of Rollercoaster
10/30/07 H moves back home