Happy New Year to you Ian.

Actually, I would have thought it. It has always been a problem and I see that as meeting one of my needs- one that he never has-- instead he mocks it- and uses it to intentionally hurt me.

So yes, in this household it matters. And it's disrupting my life when I can't find what I need because he moves it all around or never puts it back.

I actually find myself less happy and content now than I was 3 months ago.


When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007

7/1/05 Bomb
7/20/05 H moves out
2.5 years of Rollercoaster
10/30/07 H moves back home