Fran, if he has said he is going to give up drinking, watch yourself-- you must not say anything about it to him. Don't remind him or say anything if he drinks or comment on the supply of beer/liquor in the house, etc. If you do, then YOU automatically become the bad guy and the focus is OFF the liquor. He must face it alone. If you enter the picture, then you are the controlling one. If you say nothing, you can't be accused of controlling him (of course you CAN be and probably will be, but it won't make any sense even to him).
