You are right. H is feeling guilty. H sent me several tm's this afternoon after he left.
First--he apologized for D12's behavior...said sorry she talks to you like that and treats you like that.
Then said I spent too much on him and that I should return the gifts and keep the money. He said it would make him much happier and much less guilty if I did.
He said to spend the money on the kids. They were more important and worth it. He was not. That I deserved better and he wished I would open my eyes and see that I deserve to be treated better.
Later on while I was getting s15 at swimming he tm'd me from working apoligizing again for d12's behavior. I didn't answer as I was driving. He then tm'd that he thought I was mad at him and he was sorry.
I did tm him back saying I was driving.....ugh.
So, I have to say that things are never dull around here. I really don't know where his head or heart are at. I doubt he does either.
I pray you are right Snodderly and he will figure it out on day. I just don't know if he wants to.
