Lillieperl, I've discovered where I have repeated myself again by telling things I had already posted about.....sorry. That's a bad habit of mine that drives my H crazy....lol.
I also want to add that I have contributed to a lot of "stuff" the past year b/c I tried to decorate for weddings until my health went down. I had stored most of my things in a rented building, but finally had to let it go. So, I put what I could in a storage building, but it has helped to crowd things, too. I did tell him that I would be willing to get rid of part of my stuff if he would get rid of his......only thing is.....my stuff is good stuff...lol.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!