Thats by no means the full account of all the sh*t but it gives you a picture of what I am dealing with. In our first seperation I successfully DB'd but we R'd with unresoved problems and are back to the brink of a D. Here's my idea: What if I just dropped my D? The way I see it, filing for D just lets HER off the hook, shes all over the place anyway with her thoughts and emotions, I know I am at least prepared and relatively well informed about D so why not make HER file if thats what she wants. She continues to say she doesnt know what she wants but I feel as though I am doing the work FOR her by having already filed. Now, if you read my story please give me an honest opinion, i know my friends and family would DISOWN me if they knew I was thinking about this, any advice legal or otherwise? Since this D filing has been such a threat to both of us, its created this deadline thats looming and we both feel it. What if I removed it? How might her behavior change, if at all? Am I just being an idiot? Am I giving up my chances for primary custody? Let me know what you think
Last edited by mako_man; 12/26/0709:52 PM.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07
