It can work....he can change...maybe one day he'll realize how bad he has hurt you. Remember, don't believe everything he say's. He is really upset because he is unhappy with himself..not you! Try going to counseling by yourslef and see if he'll go...find a counsellor that is goal oriented.
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon