haha, not to make light of it but its all the same sh*t isnt it? I definitely got the "I have been living my life to make everyone else happy" speech. What a joke.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07
Nocode - I got that one too "We never should have been together - I never should have married you" (20 years later) "I'm working on myself" "Iv'e changed" "Ive been unhappy for years" "I dont love you and you will see you dont love me" Its amazing - you take it so personal - then when I read what you guys heard - its like they have taken a "cheat on your spouse course - heres what to say" Ha
LOL, how did I forget that one. It was put to me this way, "Why would you ever WANT me back, you wont ever be able to trust me". Hell, I am considering starting a Begging/Pleading /threatenting thread. I am sure we have all not HEARD the same crap, but have probably SAID all the same things too!
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07
Oh no doubt. The WHOLE thing has been turned around on me, I have been told "You have had so many chances" and "You had it all in YOUR hands." Thats a whole nother thread! Its just nice to know we share a common insanity.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07