I found out this morning that H may not have been with OW yesterday. My best friend told me that he was looking for a place to meet up with people yesterday and H asked his best friend what he was doing. (History...we have a very close group of friends. H's best friend is the brother of my best friend and his W...it's how we met.) H's BF asked his brother if H could come by there house last night as their whole family was there. My BF said he wasn't welcome there. WOW! This made me feel good. It's weird that H doesn't comprehend how uncomfortable his presence will make people...or even that HE wouldn't be uncomfortable. Must be that oblivious fog he's walking around in.
So now I'm wondering where the heck he was?? He didn't go to his Grandparent's and there wouldn't have been anyhwere else for him to go. I don't get it! Well, I feel better just knowing that there is a chance that he wasn't with her. Maybe what everyone else has been posting is right, that they are probably far more lonely and sad than we are.
D has gone with him today to his Grandparent's and is keeping her over night. I miss her already :-(
My brother, his wife and my nephew are on their way here now for a few days and my Dad and step mom will be visiting tomorrow. D will be back in the morning so the next few days should be fun. I'm looking forward to it.
OH, H mentioned that he might take D to the park to go skating with her new skates on Saturday. I said that I would like to go too so I could see her skate for the first time. He said it would even be a good idea to get S out for some fresh air. It will be weird for us to be going out together...but I really want to see her skate for the first time. I've said it a thousand times...man would I love to get inside his head!! Well that's it for now...I may not get to post for a few days as the room with the computer is also the room where my brother and his wife will be sleeping. Hope everyone is enjoying their holidays. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out