Imageer, PH had recommended the books to me and I purchased them directly from Rejoice. They came very quickly. It is interesting since Bob Steinkamp gives his perspective. I think your spouse is showing more external signs than mine that things are not all rosy. I do believe my W is having issues, maybe just as great but she is extremely skilled at keeping her feelings hidden.
Buddy, I am so sorry that your W is acting this way. My W did not call the kids on Christmas until after 9pm. And I think she did because I had the kids call and leave a message on her cell phone wishing her a Merry Christmas.
None of this is normal and the consistent loving way you are handling everything is being noticed. I think she is not able to handle it since her reactions are being the way they are. I don't know if that makes sense. Keep on keeping on!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God