Theo, I have a "Bible thumping" friend who I adore. She ticks me off sometimes but her heart is always in the right place. Anyway, she was the first person I told about the A waaay back when I first found out. At the time, she sent me this long e-mail quoting every Bible verse that applied to our sitch. Then, she called the Pastors and told them they needed to do something. Not kick him out of the church but make him step down from his positions of leadership. Well... they did nothing.
I talked to them numerous times over the next few months. They did nothing. I made H go to them with me so that they would know that he filed for D. I expect nothing. I have given up on there being any consequences within that church.
However, I know that, in the end, there will always be consequences..