Going thru the Big D - Aggressive or Not Aggressiv

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Well...you have to have clear goals. Small, active and measurable.

What are her complaints....even though you've tried various things, they may not have been focused attempts.


Counseling may not help and may even hurt the situation.
Letting her walk all over you may not help the situation.

Being very aggressive will hurt your chances in getting her back.


Buying more time is a good idea. Most attorneys do it. They make more money that way.


Kindness, gentleness and patience are all helpful.


Let's set your relationship goals, the things you want HER to do:

Small, attainable.
Positively stated.
Action Oriented.