Hey all.. noticed my other thread locked. Probably for the best. Some updates on my sitch:
Xmas Eve.. W dropped off the D's and OM was with her. Went to my folks place.. had a great time.. D's got lots of clothes and toys!! W called and was upset we were out so late, we got into it a little, but we quickly cooled off and apologized. She said "I'm sorry it's come to this."
Evidently, W and OM went to midnight mass.. surprised they made it out alive.
Xmas morning was great!! D's got what they wanted and had fun. Was supposed to drop the D's off at W's between 10-11. I was very surprised that W didn't call the D's in the morning. Finally had to call W at 10:30 and "they" were still in bed. Said to bring the D's over by 11.
Show up at 11 and W is wrapped in a towel.. evidently "they" were in the shower. Totally stupid, disrespectful, you name it. I had to sit there keeping the kids away from the presents while "they" got dressed. D5 said "I don't want OM here.. I want you guys" Not much I could say.
I did notice that there were several presents for OM from W. When she finally came out (he came out first) I handed her the gifts from the girls. She of course didn't think to get me anything from the girls.
I got out as soon as I could.
She texted me later saying "Thanks so much for the CD and Necklace. It's beautiful!!"
I decided to play nice for the holidays.. I replied "You're welcome.. have a merry Xmas"
Visited family and friends.. still was the loneliest day I can ever remember.
Called D's at Grandma's.. D3 was quick on the phone.. D5 was having a coughing fit and hung up on me.
This morning, W calls.. evidently she's sick.. she has to pick up OM's kids (he had to work today) from his Ex's and was wondering if I could watch our D's for a couple of hours.
I may have to come up with some plans!!
Anyway.. Hope you all had a wonderful day yesterday.
I'm counting down to a great and very different 08!!