Here's a corollary to the "I don't believe you can or will ever change."

"There is nothing you can say that will change my mind. Actions speak louder than words. It's what you do that I pay attention to."

... and then the WAS will later say:

"I certainly haven't seen it. I don't see where you have changed, despite what you or anyone else thinks."

(Yeah? Well, do you think maybe getting your head out of your arse might help?)


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.