Yeah thats a tough one too. When they tell you "I dont think you will ever change", basically my STBX is telling me that she doesnt think I will ever trust her again, and perhaps shes right. BUT, they never seem to see that THEY are the ones that desperately need to change and its been proven over and over its pointless to tell them so. What an exercise in frustation this all is.


Me: 37, engineer, former Marine
Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales
Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3
2 Dogs
Seperated since Jun07