Karen, you sound pissed! Probably have a good right to be.
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I would no more talk with either of the priests in our church about the lack of sex in our M than I would the next door neighbor.
It sounds like both of those are extremely unlikely scenarios? Why? What is the shame in wanting sex from your spouse? Why so hard to talk about it?
About the painful discussion - why so painful? Is there a way to bring love back to your heart? Why should a conversation about receiving gifts be so painful? Is there something in you that makes it so?
I know this is just shootin from the hip, but
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"by the way H, we have no sex life, I hate you for it, get a GD woodie and let's go"
you sound pissed. Justifiably. But still, it's hard to make progress that way.
Maybe counseling is worth another shot. I know you said he didn't get it when you suggested counseling. Maybe try again on that? I agree it has to come from him, maybe there is someone who can help him bring it?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
