here is one I get all the time...

"I just can't get over the past, I don't think you can change and the changes I see I have a hard time believing they are just not to get me home"

so that leaves me thinking what the heck... I try to change to fix some issues and you criticize the motive of my efforts of course my efforts are for you to be home..... but at the same time my efforts are based on having a revalation of some issues that I had/have that need to be improved for me as well!!!


me:29, H 33
Bomb- 11/06/2006 I came home from work to find that he had moved out into an apartment. next day he says he wants to work on our marriage but will not return until he feels right.
kids-4
m-10 years
T- 13 years
another Bomb-Sept '07 OW confirmed...