What is it that your H seems to value most? What does he distract himself with?
Well, he distracts himself with hobbies all the time, music stuff, etc. I wouldn't say he values it Most but he sure values it. He likes to spend time with me alone without the kids, I do value that too. I guess he is a Quality Time guy. Nothing wrong with that, but it still feels lonely without the intimacy piece thrown into the mix.
