Hi Karen I can tell by some of your recent posts that you are starting to climb the walls too.
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The part that is nice (for most men) about wanting the kind of sex that you and I do is that they do not have to jump through hoops to get it. A man does not need to rub our feet, compliment us, do the dishes and put the kids to bed before laying a hand on us. That is different than it is for many women. Well, the fact is that my husband would do all the things I just named and does frequently. And that is where it stops.... Am I supposed to pick up the sex baton from there??? Who knows??
I know! My H too. He can do the good Dad stuff, even the romance stuff, but there is no sexual follow-up. I don't think my H is as focused on the kids as your H though. Yours really takes it to a new level. And you are right, you might start to question, am I not being a good mom? You know you are great mom. Being sexual doesn't have the cancel that out, but for some men it does. Totally sucks. Hope you had a nice Christmas.
