well son and I had a very quiet day yesterday, just my parents and sister and nephew called round, it was enough in our new place can honestly say didn't want a load of mates round letting me know what I still had to do. Quite shocked that ex didn't make contact with son either by calling, text or phone, nothing and all I can put that down to is extreme guilt, the fact that he as put his son out of his home and so now can't contact him and is sat waiting for son to phone him, well I have to say he as a lengthy wait ahead of him. What a shame, that man used to love to see his child's face on xmas morning.