Thanks H4c - my thoughts were with everyone too going through this xmas and it was a comfort. Well D6 just revealed to me she has already met OW twice and H has already taken her to his apt to meet her and her D. I dont know how something could turn over in me so fast when Idecided to let go and I thought "Oh" so there it is - its been done. Hes not supposed to take her to his apt or introduce her to OW until court guardian looks at his place and decided if D6 is ready to be exposed to OW since she is only 6 and everything has happened so fast since 9/07 and we are not even legally sep. yet. I did not feel the rage I thought I would - a few days ago just the thought of it ate me alive. I asked her how did it make you feel and she said not good, I did not like it and dont want to go over there again. So, heres my dilemma. Theres no communicating with H. ANything I email even it is very calm and just asking him to please not bring her over there again right now because shes not comfortable he will just take as I'm jelous and probably will just take her over there more and will just not respond to me or I can say if you take her over there again you cant see her until we go back to ct on 1/17 in which the same thing will happen - no response and he will just not see her for 3 weeks becuase he has done that before in the last few months when he thinks I am giving him a hard time. So I thought whats done is done I guess I should just let it go and tell D she needs to tell Daddy she does not like to go there. But heres my dilemma - as her mom isnt my job to protect her and keep her away from sit. that make her "not feel good". Is it her job at 6 to be the one to tell H not to take her there which I also know he will pay no attention to bec. right now he thinks anything she says also has to do with "moms jelous and told you to say that". What do I do? Nothing seems right.
