Sounds like the WC helped you gain some distance from W and your sitch, and that's probably good. I know it's nice to have that affirmation, not to mention the affection and the realization that you're attractive to wonderful women, but maybe the space is good now between you and her? I'm not going to tell anyone when they're ready to move on, but it kinda sounds like you've thrown in the towel with W as opposed to reaching a place where you feel good about where you are. What do you think?
Merry Christmas! I'm thinking about you, ((((CVA)))).