It will be interesting to see how he is tomorrow and what he says, it anything.
So, did you say that stuff to him because you mean it, or because you want a reaction?
Be careful Mrs. If you are being honest, and you are sincerely ready to approach this thing from a place where as far as you are concerned the relationship is over, without hope of reconciliation - fine. That's a healthy place to be, and now you just have to get through the business of getting divorced and dealing with custody and child support.
If you don't really mean it, you should reflect on how you are going to deal with H in short to medium term and how those comments might help or hinder your efforts to DB.
Good luck. Happy Christmas.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.