Good for you, cat! Keep the lines of communication open. Check in with each other often. Don't have several Big Convos, just keep in touch regularly. Remember what Journey said... they have kind of an unspoken two-day rule. If two days go by with no intimate contact, then YOU intiate something... doesn't have to be a marathon sex session... just show him that you love him AND his body. Recognize that you'll likely have what feel like setbacks, but if they are occasions to share your feelings and get closer, then they aren't setbacks at all. This is great news! \:\)