Hi.....welcome to the message board....you'll find alot of insight and encouragement here.
I think that since you trust your husband affair-wise....it is more of a lack of responsiblity on his part and immaturity too.
It does make it difficult, my ex husband was very immature and irresponsible but he also had continuing flings/affairs.....
neither were easy to live with....
I think you have alot going for you since you DO trust he won't cheat.....
Have a heart to heart talk with him about the rest of your concerns, but not in a nagging way......It doesn't sound hopeless to me... [Smile]

Elusive Butterfly