H showed up at 7:30 as D asked to open gifts. It was a really good time and he seemed happy w/ his gifts. I got a very nice purse and wallet from him and Ds. H is pretty sick and laid down for an hour or so while Ds and I played a game.

H told D15 he wasn't going to his aunt's w/ us. Didn't bother to tell me or D10. D10 was very upset as she had been having a great day. She didn't get it because she said we have been getting alone so well. D15 asked him why he wasn't going and he said because he was so sick. Not sure if that was the real reason. H did go to his parents w/ us.

Asked H if he wanted to have his family here for New Years Day as we do that some years. He said it was up to me. I would like more of a response from him as I don't want to do it if we are just pretending to be happy.

H spent the afternoon here while we were gone as far as I know. He cleaned some of his guns. Not sure that is how I would want to spend the day, but then again it might be better than me listening to his brother and his wife. UGH!

H watched a movie w/ us after we got home. Then he stuck around for another hour.

H is taking off the rest of the week. Not sure what I'm to do as I know he wants to spend time w/ the Ds. H really isn't feeling up to doing anything w/ Ds. I guess I'll go shopping tomorrow and see The Kite Runner one day.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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