Thanks J. What you say makes sense, though I don't really know how to 'do' that. I think I've probably had those feelings for a while, but was covering them up, even from myself. So maybe this is a good thing.
You might not have saved your marriage, but it looks like you saved yourself. I'll need to remember that that is important, too, maybe moreso.
Can you tell me where the heck the anklet is? I'm getting things cleaned up, but you would have though it would be in the top layer. And the box is bright red, different than most of my rubble! I thought maybe I put in under the tree, but the evidence suggests otherwise. I think this is a sign.
