Merry Christmas to you Good Guy! Glad to hear you are moving on, but hope you won't go "looking" for sparks....if you know what I mean. Let it happen naturally and in it's on good time. I worry that you want to find someone to love too quickly hoping it will heal your pain you are in right now. It won't work that way, sweetie. I hope you will just enjoy the company of a lot of different ladies before you find yourself even remotely finding any sparks flying.....not b/c I don't want you to find love again....I most certainly do! But, don't rush it....as I keep reminding you....you have got to get through the grieving period and it is going to take some time.
Hope we all have a better year this next go around. Let me hear from you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
