is he too young for MLC?

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Now he is trying to make me feel guilty because he wasn't here today. Well i told him that I wasn't taking on anymore guilt from him. I got a very nasty text back. I am not going to take his guilt on anymore. I am always saying I am sorry to him for stuff he starts. He wants this marriage over so bad then he can do the work for it. It is time for me to stay away from him for awhile. His C even told him that living somewhere else is just a distraction and he is on a mini vacation all the time. He is not capable of making proper decisions for himself until he can focus on himself. I think he has a lot of guilt about this whole sitch and is trying to project it on to me. I have made my mistakes in our M and I have admitted it or apologized for them. I need to work on me now. If I let him put this all on me I will end up more depressed than him. I know this is all over the place but that is how my head is working right now. I don't want my M over, I still really love him. I just need to figure out what is going to work and start doing that. So no more sleep overs and no more playing into his deprssion. he needs to work this out in his head.