FLTC, I'm not sure if your comments are direct at me or her potential OM. For me, it's a personal choice that I made recently. It doesn't matter what other people believe or don't believe. It's not my place to give out judgment to anyone, including my wife. I have my opinions, but that's different. I certainly don't proclaim anything other than I now believe in God and I'm trying to find solace in him through this awful time. What other people do is their own business as long as it doesn't impact me or my family. As for my W, I can sit there and tell her she's a lousy Christian and she's picking and choosing what she wants to follow and etc (she says she's a liberal Christian...), but that's not my place. I already told her what she does is between her and God in the end.
As for OM, it is very annoying people go around touting that they are "strong" Christians, have the holier than thou attitude, but pick and choose what they want to follow when it's convenient. It was what turned me away from being a Christian all these years. Of course I'm sure what's in between his legs certainly overrides all his principles once he thinks there's a chance with my W. I'm quite certain he'll pop back up again when our D goes through. It certainly won't impact his high morale standards when she is D.
Dom, Actually I have been living at home, albeit sleeping on the floor. W has strepp throat so I've been taking care of the kids for the past several days. So at least I got to live at home for xmas, which is nice. It's so nice that in the morning my S comes and jumps into my bed, even though it's rediculously early. I really missed that.... I'm sure I have to go back to where I stay tonight, but I am thankful that I was able to spend a ton of time with my kids in the past few days.....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
