Last night, sleeping with a BARE LEG was such a treat!! Sometimes when the cast was on my leg, I'd feel it with my other foot in the middle of the night and not know what the heck it was-- it would actually scare me! What's that big hard thing in my bed!! LOL!! Okay, okay... settle down.
Today bf was planning on bringing his mom down to the little cabin next door and the three of us having a meal there today. (It was her idea-- she does need to see the property she bought.) The area is so rustic, I don't know if I can navigate. I haven't actually been in the cabin. It's just a garage, really. It has electricity and water but no furniture. The people built it to live in while they built the rest of the house, and then they had to leave suddenly. At least *I'll* have a place to sit. I really can't see hanging around there all day.
Would any mothers of grown sons on this board give me some insight into whether I'm overreacting to bf spending every minute with her to the exclusion of me completely? (Also men who are close to their moms.) Since I'm not a mother and have always had a troubled R with my parents, I cannot relate to this at all. I DID want to spend every minute with my H when he was hospitalized, etc., but he was my HUSBAND. And when he was not in the hospital, I wanted some time to myself, friends, etc.
I'm feeling good overall about the prospect of being "just friends" and dropping the boyfriend-girlfriend rope. Very liberating!!
