The only reason she's still living there is because I care about my kids and I want them to live in a decent place. I really don't care to get nasty with her. It serves the kids no good if we come down to that. I still want to leave the door open for any future reconciliation. I have no doubt that if I make her move out she would and she would find the means make do. And we would spend thousands on litigation. A complete waste of money and in the end my kids suffer.
Without litigation, you cant "make her move out".. but nor can she force you to stay out.
Seems like for your whole marriage, you never put your foot down for marital principles.
How about doing a major 180 now... plus giving a present to your kids... and moving back there for Christmas?
If your kids would like you there... then go be there for them, if nothing else. "Merry Christmas, Kids".
This is your decision to make. No-one else's.
Last edited by Dom R; 12/25/0705:30 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
