Thankyou all for your response - I will let go and move on. H4C your right there is nothing I can say at this point to him to change his mind - he has to be the one to change his own mind.Sgc and Micheal I will cut myself some slack - Thanks - You know I was feeling really sad earlier thinking H is leading the single life out with OW and then I thought you know what I'm the winner because I have my little girl every day. I looked at her and it was xmas eve and I thought I wouldnt want to be with anyone else or anywhere else - and I was able to let go - I hope the feeling lasts. THanks
