sgctxok, Yeah, I understand why you take his stuff down. The hurt and grieving that I feel at this point, just absolutely consumes me. If you read the article that I psoted about from the December Men's Health, it speaks to all of us men who have been cast aside for less than what we consider to be significant reasons to end a marriage. I realize that this happens to women too, but if the data is correct, after the age of 40, a majority of divorces are initatied by women. Guys like me who work two jobs, are faithful, love our children, and deep down through the layers of crust, our wives.
I live by commitments, and always have. If my commissioning oath as an officer had in it "support and defend the Constitution of the United States, against all enemies foreign and domestic unless I'm unhappy or disagree with how I'm treated", where would we be? What's the difference between that and marriage vows? Rhetorical, but???????
