Imageer, How do you interact with your W these days? Is the interaction warm or cool? Have you read "The Prodigal's Perspective" or "Prodigals Do Come Home"? These are from Rejoice Ministries. I found them helpful in seeing what the prodigal is going through and how the stander can affect the prodigal.
Life for the prodigal is not rosy at all - that might explain why she looked unkempt. I am sorry to hear that she didn't even wish the kids Merry Christmas - probably the guilt or maybe she forgot. Too bad she's not calling the kids tomorrow, either. I am sure she does love the kids, and she did say so.
It's nice that you are able to look forward to being with the kids. Have fun. It's nice that you have the kids to share your day with.
