Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #11

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Thanks for your post PH. I appreciate your thoughts.

I had a perfect exemple of MLC selfishness today. If you don't know, W wanted me to have the kids over Christmas because wanted to go away with her friends. So I got them for the holidays today just after lunch today. I ended up picking both the kids and W up and dropping W off at her place. She looked really unkept but thats another story.

When she got in the car, W tells me that the kids really wanted to see me and that they have been looking forward to coming with me. I then turned to them and told them that I missed them. W them immediately had to turn to them and tell them that she was going to miss them over the next 2 weeks. Was she feeling inferior because I said that I missed the kids?

Then when I dropped her off, she says to the kids "Mommy loves you and I'll talk to you in a few days" !!!!! This is Christmas Eve! Is she not going to call the kids on Christmas day? She didn't actually mention Christmas at all. She didn't even say merry Christmas to the kids.

Unreal!

Anyway, Merry Christmas. I'm looking forward to the time with the kids.