But when the double-standard it put in play... "Corri, you be exclusive with me... and I'm telling you that I'm exclusive with you... but I'm going to see what I can get away with..."
So is that what happened with the boyfriend?
No. I was just using that as an example. What happened with the boyfriend was his participation on AdultFriendFinder... me telling him that was not acceptable to me... him saying okay... it will stop... and then me discovering that he was back on it and conversing with others... looking up people in the cities to which he travels... and him breaking his word.
I think I'm way more liberal than most women about porn. But his daily consumption of it... just the sheer volume that he views... the interaction with others... and him covering it up...
Major, major, major red flag.
Thoughts welcome. I mean, my decision is made... but I am bewildered by the compulsion in general...
I know people like that. It IS compulsive, and they always go back to it in times of stress, crisis, depression, etc, no matter how often they promise they won't do it again.
Not LT or even Medium-term R material unless you're addicted to emotional drama, which I somehow don't think you are.
