I hope you are right, b/c I sure went into panic mode. But, he has always done like that and tried to work everything out kind of behind my back.....only that's not really the way to put it, he just don't talk with me about it, so it doesn't appear that he is doing anything or that it is worrying him and of course, I worry myself sick wondering what we are going to do.

Anyway, thanks again, for your advice and your concern.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!